WHEN IS ENOUGH REALLY ENOUGH

There is a huge different between giving up and knowing when you’ve had enough. I have been on this table far too many times, just when i think i’v had enough of the dramas and unnecessary fights, insecurities, trust issues and argument i still find myself stock in that same relationship, lot of us believe in the concept of trying to work thing out no matter what it takes and put up with anything before we would ever consider splitting up with someone. Others know that there are disturbing flaws in their relationship and believe they should end it, but worry about what others will think. This brings us to the question “when is enough really enough”

No relationship worth compromising your happiness, well being and state of mind no matter what.you can compromise anything else for a relationship to work but definitely not these listed ones.  happiness, your self-confidence, and well-being. there is no relationship worth paying for with this prices.

One reason that may tell us that things have passed the point of no return is the controlling and untrusting relationship, where there are major trust issues in the relationship. Despite everything they’ve done to bring truth back yet it still won’t work out.

It is nearly impossible to maintain a relationship where there is no trust,you find yourselves fighting over petty things that should’ve been laughed off on a normal day..

Another reason why a relationship may not seem to work would definitely be a situation where one partner will not make your relationship known to their friends and family or always seems to have excuses as to why they cannot tell people about you, there is a serious issue. If someone does not want to make you a full part of their life after a readable amount of time spent together, you have to start to wondering  why, if they have issue letting people know you being together.

Another point would be when people make you feel bad within yourselves and in front of other people, it is time to consider the healthiness of that relationship. If your partner tears you down, instead of builds you up, you have to ask yourself what is it that you love and want to be with about this person. If someone tells you that you are not good enough that you need to change who you are, or worst of all makes fun of you in front of others, this is not someone who loves and cares about your feelings and your happiness. Self-confidence is a precious commodity, and it is easily broken down bit by bit by the person closest to you. When someone treats you like you are not good enough, not smart enough, and not someone to be loved and cherished, this is not someone that you should be with. You want to be with the person who believes you.

Another point would be the act of comparison,if you’re in a relationship where your partner keeps comparing you to someone else,I think you should advice yourself on this,I don’t think I will really emphasize on this point,I believe we know that feelings we get when being compared with someone who’s doing way better than you,I’ve been in this case before in my journey for a good relationship, where by on a daily ,I was been reminded of the caliber of celebrity wanting to have her, this was one major reason of my breakup in that relationship...

Well it is clear that most issues, and most relationships can be repaired with the right help and willingness, there are ones that are simply unhealthy. There are issues that can be dealt with through willingness, while there are others that break you down as a person. There is meaning when people stand before others and say, "Until death do us part," but that should not include relationships that break you down, instead of growing together as a couple. No one, especially the person closest to you, should tear you down, distrust you, or make you feel like you are not good enough to be part of their lives.

In summary ,no relationship worth the stress, know your breaking point and stand by it...